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If We Were Truly Compatible, We Wouldn’t Struggle: A Big Misconception & Why Even the Best Couples Face Challenges | Guest Blog
Written By Giselle Ortiz, LMFT, LMSW-Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist “Maybe we’re just not meant to be.” It’s a thought that...

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Apr 24 min read


Why So Fixated? Why Does My Spouse Get so Focused on Me in Moments of Disconnection?
Scenario 1: You both find yourselves at it again, disconnected, arguing and frustrated. You both seem to have this ability to become...

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Feb 283 min read


Couples Workshop or Couples Therapy? Which Should We Choose?
Right now you might be realizing that you and your spouse or partner need help and are researching different options. You might be...

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Feb 215 min read


If I'm Checked Out of My Marriage is Marriage Counseling Pointless?
Maybe you feel like you have tried really hard in the marriage to make it work and yet you still feel far apart. You might be at a point...

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Feb 133 min read


What If I'm not a Talker or Emotional? Will I Fail at Couples Therapy?
You and your spouse may be interested in couples therapy, but maybe you consider yourself to be quieter and more reserved. Maybe you...

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Feb 64 min read


Do We Have To?! When Talking About Painful Feelings in Couples Therapy Feels Pointless.
So you and your spouse took an important step and made the appointment to go see a couples counselor. You might have felt a range of...

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Jan 304 min read


Love Your Child More Than You Hate Your Ex | Guest Blog
Written By Attorney Renee C. Bauer of Happy Even After Family Law I woke up groggy. My head was slightly achy and the balls of my feet...

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Jan 234 min read


Couples’/Marriage New Years Resolutions
2025 is just around the corner. A fresh start is coming with a new year. You might be considering what some ways of making your marriage...

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Dec 30, 20244 min read
Elizabeth Hester in the Digital Journal
Read about what Elizabeth Hester specializes in for couples at her private practice ‘Plumeris Counseling PLLC’ in her recent article in...

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Dec 29, 20241 min read


Elizabeth on USA News
Read about Elizabeth’s specialized focus in USA News on helping couples through an evidenced based model called emotionally focused...

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Dec 22, 20241 min read


Elizabeth Hester on the Professional Podcast Network
Get to know about what Elizabeth provides at Plumeria Counseling PLLC and what inspired her to start her practice....

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Dec 5, 20241 min read


Was the Affair MY Fault? // After the Affair
You’re crushed, your spouse or partner has had an affair and you feel absolutely devastated. You feel betrayed. After the affair, a part...

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Nov 15, 20243 min read


When Will Marriage Counseling Start Working for My Marriage? // Does Marriage Counseling Work
Reading this you may feel utterly exhausted…at the end of your rope even. You and your spouse have been to marriage counseling and right...

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Oct 29, 20244 min read


My Spouse Wants Me to be More Vulnerable, Why is this So Important to Them? // Emotional Connection in Marriage
Maybe you have been hearing your spouse asking you to be more vulnerable…more emotional connection in the marriage and that ask can...

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Oct 15, 20244 min read


Our Trust is Broken, is What I am Feeling Normal? Building Trust in Relationships and Marriage
There are many different scenarios in a relationship that can lead to broken trust. Maintaining trust in marriage boils down to the...

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Oct 9, 20244 min read


Check Out My Youtube Video on Negative Cycles and Why You Keep Having the Same Fight // Couples Therapy Marriage Counseling
In this video I introduce you to what negative cycles are, how they keep us locked in the same fights, why they happen, their purpose,...

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Oct 3, 20241 min read


How Do I Transition from a Marital Relationship to a Co-Parenting Relationship after Divorce? Co parenting after divorce.
You’ve gotten a divorce and there are children involved. Sometimes the thought of divorce is that it will provide you with a complete...

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Oct 1, 20244 min read


Check Out My YouTube Channel @ElizabethHester-plumeria. Couples Therapy Marriage Counseling
Sometimes reading is not everyone's best avenue for taking in new content. I know I prefer having the ability to have options between...

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Sep 26, 20241 min read


Why Don't My Apologies Work? Repairing Broken Relationships
Here it is again…you see your spouse or partner hurting…and worse, it’s because of something you did. In these moments the guilt and...

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Sep 25, 20244 min read


Affair Recovery: Signs Your Marriage Could Survive Infidelity
As you read this you might find yourself in the middle of your world being blown apart because of an affair. Affair recovery might not...

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Sep 24, 20245 min read
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